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One Size Fits All

Published on October 24, 2012, by in Uncategorized.

Over the last two years I’ve been up and down the clothing scale due to pregnancy and it has brought home the point that accessories can be worn no matter what is going on with your body. The BaubleBar is starting their friends and family sale today and I highly recommend checking it out. One of the things I love about the BaubleBar is that they provide recommendations for styling the pieces for day, night, and work.

I highly recommend a statement necklace if you don’t have one already, they are great over dresses and under blazers.

How cute would I be wearing this?

Or this…

 

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Go Smell Yourself

Published on October 22, 2012, by in Beauty, Health.

Recently my husband had an odor issue that we spent months troubleshooting. We tried EVERYTHING. A last ditch effort before making a doctor appointment, I purchased crystal body deodorant for my husband. Low and behold, it worked! Turns out the smell good in deodorants can cling to the not-smell-good, leaving an odor impossible to remove from clothing. My husband switched and we haven’t had a problem since. Naturally I broadcasted this information to the ladies of Gen-Her and some have made the switch. After hearing them rave I went for it too and am amazed. The crystal body deodorant costs more than regular deodorant but it last much, much longer so long as you don’t drop it and break it.

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How do you boo?

Published on October 16, 2012, by in Life.

I apologize for the lamer than usual blog title. My only excuse is I’m tired. Halloween is coming up- do you have plans? I’m a cat every year for Halloween which means I just put my tired cat ears headband on with whatever I wore to work that day. And every year I vow that next year I will put more time and creativity into my costume. I’d also like to point out that I’m a conservative cat, the anti-slutty cat. I can’t stand how Halloween has turned into an opportunity for women to turn into skanks and little girls to be objectified. So my response is to put on more clothing than normal. Anyhow, Halloween is upon us and I’m going with my cat ears. This year my cat ears aren’t going to be as lame as usual because I got these trend tips to go with them:

Awesome. My Halloween is going to consist of handing out treats and taking my 15 month old to a few houses we’re friendly with. The last time I celebrated Halloween properly we did Boo at the Zoo and it was great, I highly recommend it. I just read over the description of the activity and alcohol is missing, when we did Boo at the Zoo it was at night and there were drinks. If I were going to Boo at the Zoo based on this description I’d make sure my costume concealed a flask, but that’s just me.

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Daily Productivity Diary Challenge

Published on October 15, 2012, by in Life, Work.

I used to keep a diary when I was a tween. It primarily highlighted superficial things like what I was wearing, or who I talked to that day, or which boys I was currently obsessed with. Apparently I was a ten-year-old with really deep thoughts.

Then, when I was in high school and college, my diary changed from being an occasional entry on feelings to one simply tracking exactly what I did that day. Exercised, hung out at this place with these people, did this project. I have no memory of what possessed me to start listing my daily activities. Why did I feel it was important to write down that I watched Buffy with my roommates on a Monday night? Of course, I suppose you could make the argument that all bloggers have at one point or another (or repeatedly) – are my thoughts on this worth making note of it? Looking back on those entries, though, I appreciate the structure it lends to my fuzzy memories. Wow, I had no idea how obsessed I was with wearing tube tops when I was 22 – could it be I really haven’t changed all that much in 10 years??

The older I’ve gotten the more I’ve slacked off in keeping a diary. Occasionally, when I felt REALLY strongly about something, I’d crack open a page and let loose. But that just leads to a Hate Record which, after I’m dead, people can refer to as proof that “she was batshit”.

Then, when I started blogging, I figured there wasn’t much point to keeping a diary any more if I was going to be blogging my thoughts and ideas. That can be a trap – you have to figure out where you draw the line between what you’re writing for an audience, and what you’re writing for just yourself. My dabbling in autobiographical comics has taught me that – whenever you’re sharing personal things, make sure you know where the line is, even if it’s not visible to the audience and they think you’re an open book.

I’ve been wanting to start doing a daily diary again, but was waffling on what the point of it would be. That’s when I discovered this video from Teresa Amabile’s presentation:

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I love the idea that just writing down minor accomplishments will motivate me to do more.  I know on days that I work from home on my own freelance projects, at the end of the day I have trouble remembering I accomplished anything of value. I run around all day doing things but by the end can’t think of what I have to show for it. And not just do more, but think more creatively as well. If I can start keeping track of even minute problems I overcame, maybe I can remember how to circumvent them the next time.

In her speech, Teresa Amabile mentioned the website I Done This as a possible tool for tracking your daily accomplishments. Even though I tend to be a straight up pen-and-paper type gal, I thought I’d give it a shot. It sends you an email reminder each day, which you reply to with your list of tasks, ideas, etc. I was willing to give it a shot just based on the fact that it keeps a calendar database for you to easily search and refer back to.

So here’s to productivity! I’m aiming for at least a month of solid daily diaries to start, I’ll let you all know how it goes! Let me know if you want to join in and we can compare notes.

 

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Guest Post: Navigating the Rosedale Diet

Published on October 12, 2012, by in Fitness, Food, Health.

I should start by introducing myself.  My name is Sean and Monica (of this blog) is my sister.  We’re probably as different from eachother as two people can be and still be related, though.  I’m a little older than her but I’m probably half as mentally mature as she is.  She seems to have it all together, and I’m still squabbling over what the definition of ‘it’ is.

One thing I have learned however is that I greatly desire having the ability to look at myself in the mirror without wanting to punch the mirror.  Or myself.  Or both at the same time (I do have two fists after all!).  So, in seeking that goal over the years I’ve tried a variety of different diets and exercises (and combinations) to try to lose weight and get myself into a shape that looks vaguely more human and less cave troll.

For the past 6 weeks I’ve been trying to follow a new (to me) diet called the Rosedale Diet, named after Dr. Ron Rosedale.  I won’t go too much into who he is other than say he’s got a book and a website, and I believe both came out around 2005 so he’s been around a little while.  Additionally, their website has a pretty cool support section (forum, faq, q&a) almost like they were a support center for software or another product you’d get online.

In basic terms, it’s an anti-sugar diet.  You’re heavily restricted the first 3 weeks and then still pretty restricted as to what you can and can’t eat after that.  However, the theory behind it is that by removing sugar as something you’re consuming a ton of daily (and basically, eating ‘normally’ in today’s society that’s exactly what you do, consume a ton daily) your body shifts back into what it’s supposed to do: burn fat.  By only eating protein and fat, and limiting the protein to just what your muscles need to keep going, your body has no choice but to burn the fat you eat along with what’s left on you – provided you’re restricting your caloric intake (meaning eat less than your body needs to consume daily).

I started this plan on 7/21/12 and the first two days of it were extremely difficult for me.  I was doing this calculation on how much protein I could eat from some formula on his website, which limited me tremendously in how much I could eat (as I’d hit my protein cap very fast trying to do much meat during the day).  I discovered late that second day that the book had a much different formula that granted me another 40 or so grams of protein per day, which made all the difference.

In the book, he recommends doing 15 minutes of strenuous exercise after dinner so that your body is in a higher metabolic fat burning mode all through evening/sleep.  I chose not to do that and instead stick with my 30 minutes of strenuous exercise an hour before dinner.

I can’t pinpoint exactly what gives me the bigger benefit, but I always fall back on what a doctor I once had told me.  Fat loss is simply a math equation.  Take in less calories than you burn, and you will lose weight.  So primarily I believe the secret is in diet.  Exercise helps, but in a mostly unquantifiable way.  I can see how many calories I put in and gauge what that does.  I can’t see how many more I’m burning and for how long via exercise.  I know it’s happening but I can’t track it.

At any rate this plan I’ve been on works tremendously well for me.  I’ve been averaging a loss of 3-4 pounds per week when on it strictly (if I take a cheat meal or two during the week it drops to 1-2 pounds).

Different people will have different results, surely.  But I can honestly say having tried many different diets over the years (and shockingly, all of them worked great while I was on them) this one has shown me the most promise with also the most significant results.  The first week I lost 6.5 pounds.  The second week I lost an additional 4 pounds, and the third I lost another 4.5 pounds.  This put me at 15 pounds in 3 weeks.  The fourth week I only ended up losing .5 pounds, but there were two days I didn’t exactly follow the plan so that might have upset it.  The fifth and sixth week were back up to 4 pounds per week.

I don’t know how long the 4 pounds a week thing will continue, as every diet I’ve read about or been on in the past has said 1-2 pounds a week is normal/expected loss and more is dangerous.  One thing that’s really hard to keep in perspective is that your body doesn’t just get fat overnight, it takes a long time of steady behavior to become overweight.  So, in reverse, it won’t be a fast process either.  I just get impatient.

Update: I wrote the bulk of this a month or two ago after being on the diet regularly with no cheating or difficulty staying on it.  Like all things with me, this wasn’t bound to continue forever.  I’ve been waffling back and forth on it lately, lost some of my motivation for various reasons.  However my faith in the plan hasn’t been lost, I do believe it’s the best thing I can do for myself.  I just have problems committing long term to things, obviously.  And taking that first step again is always the hardest thing in the world for me.  However, I’m still down about 25 pounds because of this diet primarily and I’m at the point where I’ve been debating the next step – increased exercise/activity at a gym or other bigger step (for me).

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Heather’s Great House Hunt Fail

Published on October 11, 2012, by in Home, Life.

So…umm… remember when I did a blog about buying a house and then another blog about picking out paint colors for said house? Yeah…well, I found out the hard way that there is one final, trump-all-other-rules rule. It’s not your house until the closing is complete! And of course I know this, you know this, everybody knows this. But now I really know this.

Long story short, the sellers could not provide me with a clear title (on the plus side I now realize why you have to buy title insurance). So after delay after delay with no end in sight while they tried to get this problem cleared up, I called it quits. This puts me back in the house hunting market and I’ve already spent way too much time scouring Redfin and Zillow as well as listings sent to me by my real estate agent. I’ve reevaluated my budget and my must-haves and have made a few changes and am ready to charge back in.

I’m excited about getting back in the hunt but feel a little overwhelmed at beginning all over again as well. Maybe I can improve on my grades over last time. Wish me luck- Parking space or bust!

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Guest Post: Best Kept Secrets of Amazon.com by Josh Gadget

Published on October 9, 2012, by in Tech.

Behind every well-informed consumer is an Amazon account. Below are some of the hidden but rewarding perks of knowing your way around Amazon.com.

1. Amazon Mom [amazon.com/mom] is the epitome of our genHERation. Their mom program (for dads too) gives 15% off of diapers and wipes. They also post exclusive sales and deals on baby and parenting. The first 3 months is free, then you have to become a prime member to keep the membership. You really save a lot with this program by stacking 15% off for moms, 5% off by using Subscribe & Save [amazon.com/subscribeandsave], all while buying a wholesale size package. Subscribe & Save is also a great way to keep get K-Cups cheap.

2. Amazon’s Textbook Buyback Program [amazon.com/buyback] will have you scanning every barcode you can find. This program is amazing when combined with the Amazon Student app (iOS & Android). The process is super easy. Scan a barcode, get an offer from Amazon. Ship it. Get Paid. Amazon pays for shipping (UPS or USPS). Okay there is one catch. You don’t get money. Wait! Don’t close your browser yet. You get an Amazon gift card, but that is as good as cash in my house. Our pile of college books from last decade was worth $320.

3. Extra Perks of Amazon Prime [amazon.com/prime] seem to be added every other month. If you wrote off the free 2-day shipping program for $79/year, it is time to take another look.

  • Access to their video streaming catalog (web, iOS, PS3, xbox, tivo, roku)
  • Use Kindle Owner’s Lending Library to read books for free (only with Kindles)
  • Extra discount on Amazon Mom (as mentioned)
  • Share your free shipping with family by entering their email address

4. The Amazon Cloud Player iOS App [amazon.com/apps] is amazing! Have you been looking for a painless escape from using iTunes? Yea, get in line and take a number! This app is a big step towards the solution because it understands all of your iTunes content and you can begin to just buy and import into Amazon without starting all over with playlists and album art. I love the app’s smart way of streaming my Amazon purchases without cramming my full iPhone, but still accesses my ipod music in one tap. After downloading their desktop software, my whole iTunes library stays synced with the Cloud Player content. Android fans are probably yelling “google play does that!” [troll voice] Well Google Music on iPhone is awful. Music stops playing if you check your email. Just go download it and come back. I’ll wait. Thank me later.

5. AmazonBasics [amazon.com/amazonbasics] is Amazon’s house brand for electronic accessories. They tend to be the high quality brands, rebranded with a lower price. It is your no brainer solution for hdmi cables, rechargeable batteries, DSLR accessories like remotes and tripods. Check it out.

Honorable Mentions

-50% off Prime Membership w/ Amazon Student: honorable mention because the secret is out amazon.com/student

-Amazon Visa & ‘Shop with Points’: if paid off monthly, I’ll take it over an AmEx any day. 1% pts on all purchases, 2% on gas & food, 3% at Amazon amazon.com/visa

-Trade-Ins: It’s not just books. They want to buy  all types of media and electronics from you. amazon.com/tradein

-Wish Lists: Great way to keep track of gifts or future purchases, even if it isn’t from their site. amazon.com/wishlist

-Josh Gadget

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…AND WE’RE BACK… with new pants.

Published on October 8, 2012, by in Fashion, Fitness.

Thanks for hanging in there while we took a brief blogging break! Looks like the beginning of fall hit us a little harder than we thought it would, but we are back in the swing of things now. Starting with… the tale of two new pants!

I spend most of my time in black yoga pants. That is my go-to leg covering when I teach dance classes every night- and I tend to enjoy wearing them while I travel (elastic waistbands make me a much happier person during hours in the car or airplane)- so after complaining to Monica and E that my regular Target yoga pants shrink IMMEDIATELY after first use and I end up rolling the legs up and wearing them as clam diggers, they both suggested I try pants from the GapFit line. I waited a little while for a sale to come up and, finally armed with a 30% off coupon, headed to the website.

The GapFit line is divided into five styles: gStretch, gFlex, gFast, gDance, and gBalance. I landed on the gStretch (pants with wider legs) and gBalance (average yoga pant looking) and I bought a pair of each.

gStretch (from www.gap.com)

 

gBalance (from www.gap.com)

I’ve had these pants for a couple months now. When I first received them the gStretch pants seemed really large to me. The legs are much wider than the yoga pants I’m used to, but the wider legs have quickly grown on me and they have become my favorite pants. Both the gBalance and the gStretch have gone though the washer 5-6 times and the dryer once or twice (I usually hang things like this to dry but my husband doesn’t always get the memo). They have kept their shape amazingly! While I thought the price was a little high, especially for the $54.95 gStretch, I really feel like the quality does make it worth the cost. The coupon didn’t hurt either, and just your luck, Gap is having another sale right now (30% off, coupon code GAPCOLOR, ends today). But if you miss this one don’t worry, Gap sales come along quite often so it is definitely worth it to wait.

So, anybody have any other workout gear recommendations? This one worked out really well for me.

 

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For a Good Time, Call… Another Movie

Published on September 13, 2012, by in Food, Movies, Reviews.

As a member of the Maryland Film Festival, I sometimes get perks like free passes to sneak previews or special screenings. The other night I took advantage of this to see a sneak preview of the new comedy For a Good Time, Call. It was screening at the Charles Theater which was a plus for me- fairly close to my house and right next to Tapas Teatro, a good place to get some pre-movie food and drink.

I got there early so I could get a light dinner at Tapas Teatro (which was oh, so good). You can also buy drinks to take into the theater with you. I scored a couple of plastic cups of sangria and made my way into the Charles. A lady actually demanded to search my purse on the way into the theater that was screening the movie. Surprised, I juggled my cups of sangria and open my  purse for her scrutiny. She then barely glanced at it and waved me in. I really hate that. If you’re going to inconvenience me, at least do a good job!

Anyway… the theater rapidly filled up, even the two whole rows that had been reserved for critics and reviewers. I was dorkily excited, I’ve never been to a sneak preview before. I knew absolutely nothing about the movie; I had purposefully refrained from reading anything about it so I could go into it without any preconceptions.

Lauren and Katie are two 20 somethings down on their luck (Lauren’s boyfriend dumped her and left her without a place to live while Katie’s apartment was losing its rent control status and thus zooming up in rent) who decide to try living together after the machinations of their mutual super gay friend, Jesse. The two eventually decide to launch a phone sex line to make some cash and of course hilarious hijinks and misunderstandings ensue.

I’m not a huge moviegoer and so only recognized Jesse who was played by Justin Long. (There’s also a cameo by Seth Rogen.) I felt uncomfortable at Long’s portrayal of the queenly Jesse. It seemed too much like “Oh look at me, I’m playing a super gay man! Isn’t that hilarious!!” It felt a bit condescending. The two female leads (Lauren Miller, also a writer of the film and Ari Gaynor) weren’t bad and even had some genuinely funny moments but the script was just not up to it. Gaynor in particular intrigued me. She made me think of a young Bette Midler, kind of a brash and sassy, in-your-face kind of lady. Mark Webber is pretty adorable as Katie’s boyfriend (who she met on the phone sex line, yeah, that happens). I didn’t realize until writing this review that Lauren Miller had also been involved in the script so I’m feeling a bit less generous toward her. There is a scene recounting Katie’s first period that seems so off the mark I’m very surprised a woman wrote it. At least I could give a man a break when writing about menstruation since they don’t personally experience it. There was also this pseudo-lesbian vibe going on that seemed designed to grab the attention of the male audience. Nothing ever happened but a make-out session between the friends was made to seem just a margarita away. Again, it felt kind of condescending. “They’ll keep watching if they think Katie and Lauren will lock lips!”

I will admit I laughed a few times and at certain points the audience was laughing so much some of the dialog was drowned out but on the whole it was just not very good. Not so bad that I felt personally affronted but bad enough I was glad that I had not actually paid for the ticket. When it comes on cable next year, go ahead, knock yourself out. But there are much better things to do on a fine summer/fall evening to waste your time (and money) in the theater watching this very average flick.

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Splitting Hairs

Published on September 12, 2012, by in Beauty, Life.

The last time I got a haircut I went with this darling cut Ginnifer Goodwin has been sporting:

I’ve LOVED this haircut and am sure that I’ll return to it at some point. Right now, I’m toying with the idea of growing my hair out for Locks of Love or some similar program. Clearly I will have a long way to go from my current length to the donate-able length required. Truthfully I feel like a fuddy-duddy with long hair and can’t stand how much work it requires BUT it seems like such a small and easy thing to do for a kid in need. Have you ever done locks of love or a similar program? Any tips for growing out a short cut?